DJs often hear a wide range of requests and comments from patrons during their sets, and while some are harmless, others can be downright irritating. Here’s a list of some of the most common statements or behaviors that DJs find annoying:
“Can you play something we can dance to?”
- This is frustrating because it implies the DJ isn’t already playing danceable music, even if the dance floor is full.
“Can you play [specific song] next?”
- Patrons often don’t realize that DJs plan their sets carefully, and dropping a random song into the mix can disrupt the vibe or flow.
“Can you play [song/genre] for me? It’s my birthday!”
- While birthdays are special, DJs hear this so often that it loses its impact. Everyone has a birthday!
“Can you play [song that was just played] again?”
- Repeating songs during a set is a DJ faux pas, but patrons often don’t understand this.
“Can you play something good?”
- This is both vague and insulting, as it suggests the DJ’s current selection isn’t enjoyable.
“Can I plug in my phone and play my playlist?”
- DJs find this disrespectful, as it undermines their role and preparation for the event.
“Can you play [song] right now? I’m leaving soon.”
- DJs don’t appreciate being rushed or pressured to accommodate someone who’s about to leave.
“Can you play [song from a completely different genre]?”
- For example, requesting country music at a house music event or hip-hop at a techno night. It shows a lack of awareness of the event’s theme.
Why DJs Find These Annoying:
- Disrupts Flow: DJs carefully craft their sets to create a specific mood or energy, and random requests can throw off the vibe.
- Lack of Awareness: Many patrons don’t understand the effort and skill that goes into DJing and assume it’s as simple as pressing play.
- Self-Centeredness: Many of these statements come across as entitled, disregarding the DJ’s role in catering to the entire crowd, not just one person.
What DJs Appreciate Instead:
- Compliments on their set or song selection.
- Respect for their craft and creative decisions.
- A positive, engaged crowd that trusts the DJ to guide the night’s energy.
In short, DJs love when patrons enjoy the music and the atmosphere without trying to micromanage the playlist!